My Manhattan WeekendManhattan Saturday, by Liz Bennefeld, dba Quiet
Spaces
May 2007

Four years ago, one of my clients, promised me that when she got her master's degree, she would bring me to the East Coast to attend her graduation. I had very much enjoyed working with her, as well as with her mother, who needed a copy editor for a couple of books she was writing.

Because there are no good flight connections from Fargo to New York City, I arrived at La Guardia on Saturday afternoon, which gave me an extra day in town, since the graduation festivities didn't begin until Sunday afternoon. The Michelangelo Hotel in downtown Manhattan is a few blocks from Rockefeller Center, where the Sunday evening "desserts, drinks, and dancing" were to take place, and a few doors down from Ruth's Chris Steak House, site of Monday's final reception and luncheon before everyone headed home.

The driver was standing, as I'd been told he would be, at the entrance to the the airport's baggage claims area, holding a sign with my name on it. I enjoyed visiting with him during the drive to the hotel. Very nice man! The plane landed at about 2:30 in the afternoon, and I was at the hotel an hour later.

I had time, once I'd checked in at the hotel, to unpack, take a shower, and settle in for a nap before supper. A writer and Internet acquaintance had volunteered to have supper with me at her favorite Greek restaurant. I recognized her when she walked in the lobby door, which pleased me. I truly appreciate her choosing for me, since I am unfamiliar with Greek food. We went to Molyvos Restaurant, where I had avgolemono soup, yuvetsi (lamb stewed in a red pot, with tomatoes and orzo), and, for dessert, baklava. She ordered saganaki, which, to her delight, was brought flaming to the table, lamb chops, Greek coffee, and retsina (a Greek wine).

My husband had spent the previous evening searching Fargo-Moorhead bookstores for a copy of a recent book of hers, since we had loaned our copy to a friend, so that I could ask for an autograph. The search took him all evening, and I am sure he got the last unsold copy in two towns.

One thing that strikes me again about meeting and visiting with writer folk I have met through SFF Net (and similar spots on the Internet) is that they are so familiar to me when I meet them face to face. Another is that the conversations are so absorbing, it is hard to bring them to a close. There is never enough time.

On Sunday morning, I set out for Central Park. Found some good coffee along the way, which was one of the things that the hotel was lacking. I should add, here, that I have respiratory allergies (in addition to food prohibitions) and fragrance/chemical sensitivities. My wanderings in the park were not so extensive as I'd planned on. Tree pollen, combined with the fumes of the previous day's plane ride, left me with breathing problems. I did spend about 45 minutes, though, walking the paths and taking photos--not necessarily "New York" photos, but scenes that struck me. Buildings seen through the tree branches, folks sitting on the rocks, lots of distance between one another, the foot bridges . . . and I took some shots of people walking along the streets and the horse-drawn carriages, even though I was not up to taking a ride in one at that point. I am determined to return, though, someday, and get that carriage ride.

Back at the hotel, having changed from t-shirt, blue jeans, and moccasins into "proper" attire, I met Mo and her husband and assorted family members in the lobby, including her mother, for whom I had done some editing. Having seen so many of their family photos over the years, I felt as though I knew many of them. It was nice. Felt comfortable.

That was an odd thing about not just meeting Mo's family and friends, but also visiting with my Internet acquaintance, walking through the streets, traveling: It all felt so comfortable, as though I had been going places and doing such things all my life, rather than mostly living between these four walls, seldom going out of our yard except for Meeting and for storm spotting.

Anyway, we took motor coaches to the Hilton at Newark Airport, where the graduation ceremony and celebratory dinner were held. Best guess on the meal: green salad, petit filet mignon, carrots, a couple of broiled shrimp, and grilled potato wedges. Very, very nice! I looked longingly at the dessert, but did not indulge.

We went from there to the Rockefeller Center, where there were drinks, dancing, lots of visiting, and much time spent looking out the windows at NYC at night. I did take one photo, and I danced for the first time in over 30 years. For long enough to get more people out onto the dance floor, anyway. The view was fantastic, and the desserts--I have never spent so much time quietly lamenting my allergy to wheat! Having cheated on my diet while out on Saturday evening, I dared not do so again so soon, which was just as well, considering the calorie count.

On Monday, there wasn't much time. I found a street vendor and bought fruit for breakfast, and then packed and checked out of the hotel. Lunch at Ruth's Chris Steak House. Petit filet mignon, again; dry salad (being very careful of what I ate); asparagus and broccoli; and a flourless chocolate cake with strawberry sauce. Very tasty! There was a lot of good food on this trip.

The doorman at the hotel let me know that my car was waiting, 15 minutes before I had been told to expect it. Turns out that there had been a miscommunication with the service, and either he or the event coordinator was given the wrong pick-up time.

I really could get used to being treated with such courtesy by "customer service" people as I experienced with the doorman and the car-service driver (both of the drivers, actually). Everyone was helpful and friendly. The drive to the airport took longer than the drive into Manhattan, thanks, I suppose, to workday traffic, but that was not a problem, because I was enjoying the conversation. I felt so very well taken care of!

The trip back was relatively calm, other than our getting off the ground at LaGuardia over an hour late, which meant that I had to run to make my connection in Minneapolis. It had been raining, there, and the walkway from the plane into the terminal did not seal, so there was dripping water to get through. I had barely enough time to call Al, once I'd boarded the flight to Fargo, to tell him that he should meet the plane, before I had to switch it off, again, for take-off.

Spent all the next day doing laundry and napping. Al took the dry cleaning with him at noon. By the day after, I was ready to do the whole thing over again. If only I could!

Liz


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